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March 17, 2018

How to Feel Confident in Anything

  A few weeks ago I mentioned in my How to Find Your Style post that a big part of fashion is confidence. Today let's discuss in depth how to build up your confidence and feel amazing in anything you wear.

 1. Wear What You Love 
   First of all you need to select outfits that you genuinely like. Fashion is about expressing yourself. If you really like a certain article of clothing don't hesitate about what others will think. Just go for it! If you only ever wore things other people liked you'd be miserable. After all, you wear clothes because you like them not to please anyone else. Others shouldn't control what you wear.  If someone compliments an outfit you took forever picking out, won't that make you feel good receiving such a sincere compliment?

 2. Not Everyone Is Going To Like What You Like  
  ...but that's okay!! The world would be such a dull place if we all had the same taste. You may absolutely love your new beret but the person giving you a bizarre glare from across the room leads you to feel self-conscious.  As long as you know that it's adorable it shouldn't matter what others think. If you don't focus and obsess over the people who don't like it you'll be much happier!

 3. Attitude Is Everything 
  This is probably the most important tip! Attitude shows if you're wearing the clothes or the clothes are wearing you. Clothes are something you wear but the way you present yourself shows what kind of attitude and personality you have. Nobody wants to be around someone who has a bad attitude and doesn't look like they care about how they look. Personality is the most attractive trait you can possibly have. So go ahead and wear those clothes that reflect who you are! 

 4. Fake It Til You Make It 
  Even if you have aren't the most confident person, act like you are. Like I asked,  are you wearing the clothes or are the clothes wearing you? If you are going to wear a bold eye-catching outfit you need to wear it with confidence because only the boldest of bold can pull it off! If you fake confidence eventually it will rub off on you.  You'll realize being confident in your decisions not only makes you act differently, it makes you feel better too and people around you will take notice.   

 5. Take Fashion Risks 
  If you never take fashion risks, then what's the point of fashion?  Taking risks is how fashion becomes fashion.  How do you think trends happen?  It's because someone wears something completely out of the ordinary and gets noticed.  At first, it can be a little intimidating but taking risks is raising your style to the next level.  It can be exhilarating to take risks. Sure you and I may get stares but I find it quite amusing.  Staring is harmless.  Others are just admiring our confidence and wishing they could pull off something this fabulous!!

  Hopefully this post has helped and inspired you to be more confident in the fashion choices you make.  Comment down below and share the biggest fashion risk you've ever taken! See you next Saturday for another post! 


  1. I love these! I totally agree with confidence, if you like what you wear then nobody else matters xx

    Gemma • Gemma Etc . ❤️

    1. It’s so true! Glad you enjoyed it!💋

  2. Love this post!

    Vanessa x |

  3. I love remembering that not everyone will like what you like, and I think it's got to remember that it's okay to not like what other people were as well!

    Julia // The Sunday Mode